Conundrums

I am always stuck between giving people everything because I am dying to create meaningful relationships, and giving them nothing at all because then if they leave, at least I will be left whole. Being loved is the minimum. Make sure you are also being respected, prioritised, supported, desired and understood. 

My whole life changed when I realised I could be humble and calm yet still take no shit and set solid boundaries to protect my energy. Letting people be wrong about you or a situation while keeping your peace and focus is the most misunderstood power move you will ever make.

Don't ignore your intuition just because it is telling you something you don't want to hear. The best thing I ever did was becoming more low key and focusing on myself. It is not a bad thing to celebrate a simple life. You think attention is love and that's why you suffer so deeply. Thus right now I am heavy on self improvement: it is really me vs me. And you don't know this new me because I put my pieces back differently. I found this world to be woefully lacking in safe places; so I became one.

As someone rightly said "She'll never be the same as all the others, for her soul is made of moondust, black orchids and red, red wine, and this magical combination tastes just fine."